MOVE ON ? GA BISA ATAU GA MAU?

Susah move on? Sebenarnya, move on itu bukan perkara susah atau gampang. Tapi mau atau tidak. :)

If you dwell in the past, remembering every little details and secretly hoping that you could turn back time, then move on is impossible. You may look back, sometimes. It’s actually easier said than done. The big question is: Are you ready to move on and find yourself a brand new adventure? Or are you too comfort in your old blanket of memories, so you refuse to fold and keep it somewhere safe?

Kenapa move on susah? Karena, lebih gampang memaafkan orang lain daripada memaafkan diri sendiri.

Mau minta bantuan sahabat atau psikiater secanggih apapun kalau dari dalam usaha melawan terlalu kuat ya percuma. So please stop making excuses such as “you don’t walk in my shoes”, and please, learn to see “you” from a different angle. 

One simple way: write it all down. Your thoughts, your feelings, and let your brain, not your heart to analyzes things. Then, maybe you’d realize, all of these times you’ve been such a coward not to let things go. You were the queen of all drama. 

Point terpenting menuliskan apa yang terjadi, adalah jujur pada diri sendiri. Kalo sama diri sendiri aja gak bisa jujur, percuma.  If you think you’re happy just because you live in denial, you are wrong. Mulut bisa berkata “saya nggak apa-apa, saya bahagia”. Tapi, hati nggak akan bisa berbohong. ;) 

Now, do you still think you’re not the real drama queen? Do you think what you’ve been through, all of your pain and your sorrow and the misery that still haunting you to this very moment are not because you won’t let go? Well, then the denial is still there. Trapped within you.

So, try to forgive yourself. Once you did, you will see there will be rainbow after the rain, and the world is not made of black and white color only. 

Remember: If you learn to let go, you will gain so much more :)